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Cyberbullying

What is cyberbullying?

Cyberbullying is using the internet, social media, or text messaging to intimidate, put-down, spread rumours or make fun of someone and is usually done repeatedly. 

Cyberbullying can damage a young person’s feelings, self-esteem, reputation and mental health.

Statistics

  • Canada has the 9th highest rate of bullying in the 13-years-olds category on a scale of 35 countries.
  • 47% of Canadian parents report having a child victim of bullying.
  • Any participation in bullying increases risk of suicidal ideas in youth.
  • Girls are more likely to be bullied on the Internet than boys.
  • The most common form of cyber-bullying involved receiving threatening or aggressive e-mails or instant messages, reported by 73% of victims.

Warning Signs of Cyberbullying

  • Avoids using their mobile device or computer.
  • They appear upset, withdrawn or angry receiving notifications
  • Your child becomes more secretive using about their online activities
  • Your child is reluctant to leave the house to attend activities, school, social gatherings, etc.
  • They begin falling behind in school and grades suffer.
  • Refuse to go to school
  • Your child appears sad, frustrated, impatient or angry much more then usual.
  • They are having trouble sleeping
  • Less of an appetite

Also,

  • Your child suddenly deletes social network profiles
  • A lot unknown notifications are coming through
  • They have blocked people from their social media accounts, phone, and/or email

It is extremely important that you talk with your child to reassure them that you are there for them and there to help the situation. 

Are You Being Cyberbullied?

Here’s what to do:

  • Keep your cool and don’t respond to the hurtful message.
  • Keep evidence by saving or taking a screen shot of the message in case you need to show proof.
  • Block the person(s) responsible for the hate.
  • Remember you are not alone, tell somebody that you trust will help you with the situation.
  • Protect yourself by keeping your passwords private.
  • Be very careful with which photos you share online.
  • Report fake profiles of yourself.
  • Report bullying to the social media site it happened on.
  • Being bullied is very hurtful, do not hesitate to reach out for help whether it be an adult, teacher, or any of our online resources.

How Can You Help Someone Being Cyberbullied?

  • Reassure your friend that they do not deserve what is happening to them.
  • Ask your friend what they need and help them find a solution.
  • Help your friend talk to a trusted adult.
  • If it feels safe to do so, stand up for your friend using neutral words like “I’m unfollowing you because what your doing is hurtful.” – taking a stand may allow others to do so.
  • Report abuse on social media.
  • If its safe, ask the person to stop.
  • Check on your friend from time-to-time so that they know that you care.

Other things you can do from making situations worse:

  • Do not forward or share hurtful statuses or photos.
  • Do not be a by-stander.
  • Remaining silent could be interpreted by approval of the cyberbullying. Reach out to the victim and tell them you disapprove – this could save a life.
  • Do not wait and do not tell yourself its none of your business – you don’t want to regret it years down the road.